‘Learn to unlearn so you can relearn’
Part and parcel with being an adult comes our hard wired belief that things should go a certain way.The way which has been ‘learnt’ whether passed down through the generations or due to our...
Part and parcel with being an adult comes our hard wired belief that things should go a certain way.The way which has been 'learnt' whether passed down through the generations or due to our...
Find your 'reason of being' for inner happiness
Life is all about choices. Any direction you decide to take will bring about different outcomes.Do you consciously take the time to find the answers to your burning questions or spend time in solitude...
Why so serious? Connect to your inner child more
Children laugh on average one hundred times per day, adults around ten.Since when did we become so serious? As we grow up, our childlike wonder wanders off to some dark place hidden deep within us,...
How to create that perfect mélange in your life
We are such dynamic entities with extremely complex wiring. Each of us live our lives according to the many variables that have occurred throughout our lives.However, in order to obtain the fulfilling...
You only live once – Wrong. You only die once
We are constantly at choice throughout our journey of life. However, unfortunately our negative mindset often interjects its’ persistent pessimism, which warps the way we look at choice. When you...
Flexibility of the mind and the ability to declutter it
We all know that being physically flexible is important to strengthen our body and keep us in supple shape.However, cognitive flexibility isn’t really heard of, let alone practiced. With awareness...
Consistency is the key to success
Learning a new skill is fantastic and much needed in order to grow. However, if you want to really succeed in the craft, mastering your competence is necessary.The assured way to conquer your ability...
Through adversity we grow
There is a inner strength and resilience built in those who overcome adversity with flair. A strength residing so deep that its’ outcome and worth can only bring value to ones’ life.Through making...
Are we living in a perception of a perception?
Do you live your life in accordance to your beliefs, values and dreams regardless of what anyone thinks - Or do you find yourself abiding by other people’s requests (opinions)?Do you find yourself...
Turning anxiety from a foe to a friend
Anxiety is generally construed as negative. However, feeling anxious is part and parcel of everyday life. We have all experienced feelings of nervousness and uncertainty, trouble concentrating or an...
Allow life to happen for you, not to you
We live in an era where there is so much going on, at all times. We are spoilt for choice and are constantly being bombarded from so many varying means and different platforms, which makes it...
Where our focus goes, our energy flows
Imagine if all the millions of bits of information that was thrown at us, at every second of everyday were unfiltered and duly processed. This would be impossible for the brain to decipher without,...
All change is hard at first
Habits are a collection of single moment decisions that eventually become more repetitive and familiar over time. It’s only when we look back that we see our habits being formed; they are the result...
Tips to attain a balanced life
The writer is a neuro-transformational coachTake a few long deep breaths and open your senses. How do you feel overall - on top of things or a bit submerged? Do you feel centred or a bit wobbly? Do...
We are afraid of the very thing that will liberate us
When was the last time you really wanted something yet you were too afraid to reach out and grab it? Perhaps it was asking someone you like out on a date, requesting a promotion from your boss or...
Which ‘attachment style’ are you?
There are four different attachment styles and we all possess at least one of them. These are defined by how, as babies, we adapted in accordance to our caretakers fulfilling our needs.Attachment...
From a fixed mindset to a growth mindset
Humans thrive on routine but can easily get bored if there isn’t any novelty. Most of us crave something new, yet are often afraid to reach out for it. This mainly stems from a fear of failure or a...
Connecting to your inner wisdom
To return to our inner knowledge is where true self love, intuition and inner wisdom stems from. Being with the all encompassing energy of one self is where the beginning of existence...
Replace criticism with acceptance and appreciation
For most of us, it comes with extreme ease to give kind and caring words to others showing our endless support and unconditional love; yet when the tables are turned, why do we find it difficult to...