Reality TV to Gaza: Love is blind, blind spots are not
“Bee, habibti! As promised, and for research purposes, I have cringe- and binge-watched Love Is Blind: Netherlands, while you made your way through the Habibi version of the dating show,” writes...
Bridge's diary... An Arab scientist walked into an azza
A week of Muscatian encounters with people, in real life and on screen, as shared by the writer whose name many Omanis often pronounce as 'Bridge'. Wednesday, November 4 – “I am an...
Bridge's diary: Middle class blues in Muscat
A week of Muscatian encounters with people, in real life and on screen, as shared by the writer whose name many Omanis often pronounce as “Bridge”. Al Hail, late last Saturday afternoon, in a...
Bridge's diary: The fancy dinner
A week of Muscatian encounters with people, in real life and on screen, as shared by the writer whose name many Omanis often pronounce as “Bridge”. It was late Tuesday evening. "Nice to hear...
The women on the majlis in Barka
There we were, sitting side by side on the majlis, a plain bench-like sofa running along all four walls of a bright sitting room, the old-style window air-conditioners buzzing against the heat....
Miss car keys and quiet luxury problems
“This will probably sound like a first-world problem, but...” She paused, her beautiful, big brown, kohl-lined eyes suddenly serious as she looked down at her plate of mishkakis. (Pronounced...
Menu-pause, the grey table and the gym
"Anxious, happy, anxious, content, happy, anxious, sad, confused, happy," Hollywood actor Steve Buscemi said when asked about his state of mind. Navigating a sea of overlapping emotions, all at once....
Afternoon murmurs from Muscat’s chic Manhattan
“Donald was the name of her orange cat. That was a bit creepy,” I chatter to my friend about my late father’s girlfriend as we sit at a large shared-with-strangers table at the bohemian No Name...
AI anonymous... I am fine, Dr Flattery Phil 2.0
Dear EcoGPT, hi. It would be weird to ask you, "Salaam Alaikum, what's up?" Granted, many people may treat AI assistants as their not-so-private digital diaries or even as their unforgetting,...
Landlines and pyramids
“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born,” I once read in one of the diaries of the...
Mami's memory lane...
“Bye, Beach. I love you, too,” she said to me the other day. Calling me a beach. I guess the unintended mix-up could have been worse, and I decide it is close enough to Breg, the short form of my...
The Omani woman who saved me from my inner hulk
Despite a five hundred and seventy-three-hour wait for this food delivery company's customer service representative to finally call me back, we somehow managed to keep the conversation about a...
Turtles, Trash and Iglesias
"I want to listen to Enrique Iglesias or Celine Dion, please auntie," insists my eldest niece, who sometimes has this cute, childish presence, as she touches the pin that holds together her tightly...
Finding maktoob far from home
I went to a Christian high school in Buitenveldert, Amsterdam, but apart from Religious Studies, there was little that was particularly religious about it. In those days, one of my friends had a...
The softness of elephant skin
“Khob Khun Ka, Rapunzel, kha!” she said to my favourite girl while running her fingers through her brown curls. Vivian, a spa therapist in Phuket, was friendly, but not in the typical Thai polite...
I am too Messi
“All I care about today is Messieeee!” Once again, a phone case with the Argentine flag and a picture of “the greatest football player ever” is waved in our faces by one of our colleagues....
33 floors, a tuk tuk between Bangkok and Muscat
“Oman is okay now, right?” the tuk-tuk driver suddenly asked, smiling at us through his rear-view mirror as we gripped the sticky handrails, plastered with stickers advertising nightclubs, while...
Siri, surveillance and the search for human connection
“Your iPhone contains almost everything about you, yet Siri has never been able to use all of that information when you need it,” read the New York Times Wirecutter newsletter. A bit of a tech...
On not comparing Beirut and Amsterdam
“Is your family still safe in Beirut?” I asked the familiar face I bumped into at a coffee shop. I was on a short break after almost writing on the office windows with a permanent marker, feeling...
Painting mugs with a New Yorker in Muscat
“Right,” I lie, when the lady beside me at a pottery studio (run by an Omani mother of two) in Muscat says Michael Jackson’s music is not from our generation. She gives me a look with her big...