Fajar Minhas, a native of Islamabad, Pakistan, is experiencing her first Ramadhan in Oman, crafting a new tapestry of memories in a different land. This sacred month is abundant with cherished moments, familial bonds, and the power of prayer.
"My first Ramadhan in Oman is delightful; I truly appreciate the tranquillity and pleasant climate here," Fajar shares, her voice filled with warmth. "Back in Islamabad, it's quite chilly at the moment, which we find quite agreeable as it helps alleviate thirst while fasting."
Reflecting on the significance of fasting, she continues, "The experience deepens our understanding of the struggles faced by people in Palestine, Syria, and Sudan. We empathetically connect with both Muslims and non-Muslims, feeling their hardships, especially when lacking food or clean water. This connection draws us closer to them—and most importantly, to Allah."
Fajar may not recall the exact moment she began fasting from dawn until dusk, but vivid memories of her mother explaining how to ease into fasting linger in her mind. "I remember being taught that starting with six to seven hours of fasting would be rewarded by God," she reminisces.
Witnessing her grandmothers embrace the fast inspired her, free from any pressure. "I must have been around 10 or 11 when I began fasting regularly," she adds, a hint of nostalgia in her tone.
The fondness for childhood memories continues with a special aspect known as 'Ronak.' "In Islamabad, we have these joyous gatherings called 'Ronak' during Ramadhan. The atmosphere is calm and peaceful. Schools and offices would close early, allowing us to enjoy Saheri and Iftari get-togethers, filled with laughter and connection. I recall that in my childhood, Ramadhan coincided with the summer, and during university, it came right after mid-term examinations—a welcome break from studies! Nights were spent together with twenty-five girls, performing Tarawee prayers and engaging in Holy Quran readings. We would celebrate with games of Ludo. I deeply miss those days, my family, and my siblings."
Ludo, a beloved board game in Pakistan, evokes joyful memories for her.
As Ramadhan progresses, a wave of shopping takes over, particularly as people prepare for Eid. One market that springs to mind is Meena Bazaar, bustling with activity as shoppers hunt for henna and bangles.
"Midway through Ramadhan, henna is usually absent from the market, but everyone eagerly shops for traditional salwar kameez. The vibrant atmosphere is charming, making it comfortable for all ages, from young girls to older generations," Fajar explains with enthusiasm.
Pakistani cuisine shines during Iftar as an array of special snacks beckons. "Of course, we must have samosas and pakodas! In our family, we would also whip up Chinese kababs, bread kababs, kachoris, jalebis, dahi baras, chana chaat, and fruit chaat—delicacies enjoyed in every home, MashaAllah!"
Cooking is a cherished tradition that children partake in, learning from their mothers.
Rich spices and herbs are the hallmark of these dishes. "Yes, while some items can be quite heavy due to frying, it’s customary to serve lemon and mint tea, often with a touch of cinnamon, at our tables to combat acidity and the side effects of fried foods."
Tradition plays a vital role during Ramadhan, with many opting to wear new clothes every Friday of the holy month. "We would begin shopping as early as two months prior to Ramadhan! The last ten days are particularly special, as we adorn ourselves in new outfits for Tarawee prayers. Once we’ve prepared for Ramadhan, there’s rarely a need for further shopping during the year," Fajar notes with a playful smile.
Ramadhan is also a time of giving. "We share rations, clothes, and all necessities for households, alongside paying Zakat to support those in need."
Fajar feels at home in Oman, a Muslim country that embraces her heart. "I can hear the calls to prayer and partake in Tarawee prayers without needing to set alarms. It truly feels like home."
To round off our conversation, we indulged in a lively game of Ludo, where Fajar's expertise shone through once more.
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