I recently came across a podcast of an interview with a young Saudi man describing his struggles with sadness, lack of achievement, and “feeling stuck with life”, as he describes it.
These feelings are then replaced with times when he feels very energetic telling his friends that he “should have been a prophet’.
He described living at the airport for 22 days where he spent his time watching passengers and sleeping in the airport seats and sometimes on the floor. He then took a tour visiting the different cities and villages of the kingdom meeting strangers staying with them and having meals with them.
The podcast host was amazed at the young man’s thoughts and talents. I listened to the whole podcast with one question in mind, where is the talent exactly? How is living in the airport and visiting strangers considered a talent? Who is paying this man’s bills and keeping his wife and children company while he is away?
While listening to the podcast it was clear to me that this man most likely suffers from an undiagnosed mental illness, probably bipolar disorder. The feeling of failure can be explained by a depressive episode while the feeling of “I should have been a prophet’ is a hypomanic episode. Both are features of bipolar disorder yet there is no mention of that in the podcast.
It is not uncommon that mental health struggles are often romanticised or misunderstood in our society.
A person experiencing a manic or hypomanic episode may exhibit creativity, boundless energy and confidence. However, these highs can lead to impulsive decisions, strained relationships and financial or personal consequences.
Similarly, depressive episodes can rob individuals of their sense of purpose, drive and self-worth. Instead of recognising these as signs of a mental health condition, society often labels such individuals as eccentric, talented, or simply lost in thought.
Unfortunately, mental health awareness still has a long way to go. There remains a significant stigma surrounding conditions like bipolar disorder, preventing many from seeking help.
Individuals struggling with these symptoms may not realise they are experiencing a medical condition that can be managed with appropriate treatment and support. Instead, they are left to navigate these challenges alone, often feeling misunderstood or judged.
Podcasts and social media platforms have an incredible reach and a responsibility to raise awareness, especially when such clear signs of mental health challenges emerge.
Instead of celebrating what might be symptomatic behaviour, hosts could use these opportunities to discuss mental health openly. A mention of seeking professional help or a conversation with a mental health expert could provide listeners with valuable insights and resources.
Rather than dismissing these struggles as unique talents, we need to foster understanding and compassion. It’s important to ask questions like: Is this person okay? Are they getting the help they need? Encouraging mental health evaluations and therapy can lead to healthier outcomes for individuals and their families.
In the end, recognising mental illness is about empowering people and helping them to lead a balanced and fulfilling life. Remember that, the real talent lies in recognising when we or others need help - and being brave enough to seek it.
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