Informed parenting + Self-awareness = Digital resilience
In an age where the world fits in the palm of a teenager's hand, the race to follow every trending challenge or viral video has become a defining feature of youth culture.
But as our children scroll endlessly through short clips and glamorous influencer reels, something vital is being lost — authenticity, self-awareness and the ability to think independently.
The rapid-fire world of social media is shaping how young people think, behave and even perceive themselves. Viral ‘trends’ often push youth to imitate, perform, or conform just to feel accepted. While this might seem harmless on the surface, the deeper effects on identity and self-worth are far more concerning.
So why are so many of our children swept up in trends? The answer lies in basic human needs: acceptance, recognition and belonging. Social media platforms offer these in the form of likes, shares and follows. But the validation is fleeting — and often built on inauthentic behaviour.
As Mariam al Ghailani, a social worker, explains: “The real danger is that teenagers don't even realise they’re copying others. They believe they’re expressing themselves, when in reality they’re following a formula crafted by others to gain approval."
While some online trends may appear playful or fun, many promote risky, superficial, or even harmful behaviour. From dangerous physical challenges to mocking others for views, today's 'fun' can lead to tomorrow’s regret - or worse.
Salim al Kharousi, a father of three teenagers, says: "What worries me the most is how my kids justify everything online as ‘just a joke’ or ‘just for views'. Dangerous stunts have become normal because they're repeated so often - it’s alarming."
We cannot fight fire with bans. Technology is not the enemy - ignorance is. The solution lies not in restricting access but in fostering awareness and resilience.
What can parents and educators do?
#Build identity
#Encourage critical thinking
#Create safe spaces
#Lead by example
#Promote digital literacy
#Celebrate individuality
Dana al Siyabi, a university student, shares: "I used to panic if I didn’t join the latest trend or get enough engagement online. But once I started focusing on what truly interests me and sharing my authentic experiences, I felt more self-respect and peace."
Trends will come and go — but our children’s values and identities must remain strong.
As parents, educators and community leaders, we are responsible for helping young people discover their voice, their values and the strength to go against the tide when needed.
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