Kristen Norman Berg, hailing from Norway, possesses a treasure trove of cherished memories of Ramadhan, thanks to her 25 years in Oman.
What makes Oman so captivating for her?
Kristen explains, “It’s the essence of living humbly within a community that values simplicity while also being incredibly unique."
Her journey began with a three-week visit, and upon leaving, she felt an inexplicable void that drew her back.
“There’s a remarkable opportunity to learn from this society, which fascinated me from the very first moment I arrived. It presents an entirely different way of life, offering fresh perspectives on tackling challenges. Issues can be resolved in various ways, often with an emphasis on humility and kindness—principles that resonated with me right from the start,” she reflected.
Kristen reminisces fondly about her inaugural Ramadhan, noting, “My first experience allowed me to witness a different lifestyle while focusing on values often overlooked from a Western viewpoint. It emphasises self-discipline and reflection."
She acknowledges the challenge of fasting throughout the day, especially for those unaccustomed to it, but also highlights the profound joy of breaking the fast.
“Those precious moments at sunset, when the fast is broken, are truly special. They’re beyond words; you must experience them. The call to prayer, the act of breaking fast, and the shared family meals create a unique sense of togetherness.”
Marrying into an Omani family has given Kristen a deeper understanding of the culture, allowing her to see life through a more intimate lens.
What changes did she notice?
“Transitioning can be challenging in any situation, but I’m fortunate to have a wonderful family, including my husband and children. Each year, we eagerly anticipate Ramadhan. On the first day, we reflect on the month ahead, but it always seems to whisk by in a flash, and suddenly, Eid is upon us. It’s a truly valuable time that I would never want to miss.”
What does she learn from this experience? How does she embrace hunger?
“It’s a month dedicated to self-reflection, where you push your limits a little further each time. For those practising Islam, Ramadhan offers a chance for introspection, study, and a closer connection to Allah. This connection brings a profound inner peace. The purpose of Ramadhan is to provide an opportunity for renewal—an invitation to improve oneself while quietly honouring the religion and the community. Everyone partakes in this journey, creating a sense of unity that’s truly irreplaceable,” Kristen pointed out.
She views Islam as a personal journey, unique to each individual.
“I’ve observed that Omani society embodies pride, kindness, and a reserved nature regarding personal challenges. They often rely on their faith to navigate these issues. Ramadhan serves as a time for reflection and reconnection with Allah, reminding us to stay true to our paths.”
Kristen used to attend a series of enlightening talks at the Sultan Qaboos Mosque’s Islamic Information Centre that promotes education and intercultural dialogue.
“The essence I’ve embraced is a message of hope. Even if today is difficult, tomorrow holds promise. There are always people who respect and believe in you—you are never alone. While the challenges we face may seem daunting, it’s vital to remember that others endure even greater trials. Recognising this helps to provide clarity and perspective.”
She fondly recalls late Sheikh Khalfan al Esry, who played a pivotal role in bridging understanding between converts to Islam and Omani society.
“Sheikh Khalfan did remarkable work in fostering this connection. He recognised individuals for who they truly are and empowered them within the community at the Sultan Qaboos Grand Mosque. He ensured those who chose to convert to Islam faced support, a crucial element for anyone navigating such a significant life transition. It’s not an easy road, and often, sacrifices must be made. But the Grand Mosque community provided a home—a haven where individuals could find comfort and encouragement. I think that’s an incredible display of support.”
Ramadhan also signifies Iftars, and as an enthusiast of cooking, Kristen has embraced Omani culinary traditions, preferring to keep things straightforward.
“In the words of Sheikh Khalfan, ‘Please don’t fill your cart to the brim every day.’ It’s essential to be pious and simple—that’s the true essence of Ramadhan too.”
She’s even weaving in her Norwegian roots into meal preparations.
“We enjoy a lot of salmon—baked with a delightful sauce, served with rice or potatoes,” she suggested, embodying a perfect blend of her two worlds.
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